What Love Language Do You Speak?

By: Denis Priesnov
Updated: 2 months ago
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Have you ever heard of the various types of love languages? Not all of us are familiar with the work of Gary Chapman. And we should get to know this author and his work. The book, The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate, was published in 1992. It describes 5 types of the language of those in love. 

The author mentions that all of us use different means to communicate with our partners. Based on his counseling practice, he's determined the main types that are featured in this love language quiz. Though they are different in nature, most people combine two types in their daily life. One is the main, the other secondary. 

These types are differentiated not only by the way we express our love but also the things we demand and fear most. Observation is the main tool for this linguistic challenge. 

What is your nature? Is it hard to determine your "language"? Yes, it is if you try to do it alone. We often require a third-party opinion and a look at our behavior. 

What is my love language

Determining your love language is an essential part of building meaningful and long-lasting relationships. The way we express our love is the way we would like to receive it. So, a couple should understand the differences in the perception of love and how to show their significant other how much they value them. 

Types of Love Language

  1. Words of Affirmation. This type of language is one of the easiest to understand for the general public. People with this main type express their love via words. They are not afraid to say "I love you" or "I appreciate you" and expect the same from their partner. They need to hear the words of endearment and, ideally, a reason or two behind them as well. 
  2. Acts of service. This type of love language is completely opposite to the first one. Instead of simply using words, actions are appreciated. Everything that may help or ease the burden for your significant other is appreciated. For some people, vacuuming may be a simple chore, but for this type, it's an act of love. 
  3. Receiving gifts. This type is simple enough. A gift shows how much you love a person. It also should be mentioned that the effort behind finding a gift is appreciated more than its value. Such people do not necessarily require expensive gifts. They'd love meaningful ones more. 
  4. Quality time. Such people appreciate the undivided attention from their partners. They are also willing to give it in return. Spending meaningful time together is the utmost expression of love. Also, Be sure to turn off your phone if your s.o. thrives form this love language. 
  5. Physical touch. This is a highly physical type that snuggles (up) to touch like a fluffy cat. Any intentional contact makes them feel loved and appreciated. Even simply holding hands is enough of a gesture. However, finding new exciting ways to physically express love is always thrilling. 

Are You Ready?

So, do you already know your type? On the whole, we bet you are a bit confused right now and require the help of our love language test to determine the main and secondary types of your love language.

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What Love Language Do You Speak? Questions

love language What would you like to receive for your first anniversary?
  • a romantic dinner

  • a sensual massage

  • a romantic ballad sang under your balcony 

  • a cute toy

love language What would your perfect date look like?
  • a movie night 

  • a dinner is a cozy cafe 

  • a picnic 

  • a romantic game for two

  • a night in a club or karaoke

  • hit the beach

love language Choose signs that you like the most.
  • Gemini, Cancer, Libra

  • Virgo, Capricorn, Aquarius

  • Leo, Sagittarius

  • Pisces, Aries

  • Scorpio, Taurus

love language It's a Saturday morning, what are your plans with the s.o.?
  • stay together in bed until noon

  • make them a breakfast in bed

  • wake them with a kiss/massage

  • first thing to do - wake them with sweet words and say how much you love them 

love language quiz Would you rather your partner be:
  • romantic

  • loyal

  • responsible

  • cuddly

  • generous

love language We are not perfect; what quality of yours would you like to change?
  • my impatience

  • my short temper

  • my workaholism 

  • my dependency 

  • my shyness

  • my lack of trust

love language What do you think about PDA?
  • it’s okay in moderation

  • no PDA 

  • I’m a highly physical person and don’t mind passers-by

love language quiz How often do you say "I love you" to your partner? (or would say)
  • every day

  • when I'm bursting with love

  • very rarely

love language Are you a gift giver or receiver?
  • both

  • giver 

  • receiver 

  • neither, gifts are not so necessary 

love language test Are you comfortable in silence with your partner?
  • yes

  • only for short time 

  • I feel very uncomfortable 

love language quiz Do you mind preparing dinner alone if your partner is tired or busy?
  • I’ll just order something 

  • not at all

  • I’m not much of a cooker, but I’ll try 

love language quiz Do you like surprises?
  • yes, very much

  • I appreciate them 

  • no, I’m not a fan 

love language quiz You receive a card from your partner on your birthday. What would you like to read there?
  • love you from the moon and back

  • hope all your birthday wishes come true!

  • this day is yours, let’s enjoy it together

  • thinking of you on your birthday and wishing you everything happy

love language quiz How long can you live without seeing your partner regularly?
  • long-distance is perfect for me

  • about a year if I see them at least ⅓ of the time

  • I can spend a couple of months without them but that’s all

  • no more than two weeks

love language test You need to wake up your Love, what would you do/say?
  • whisper sweet nothings

  • make them coffee

  • just hug them 

what is your love language Do you leave cute messages for your partner on bath mirrors, fridge, whiteboard, etc?
  • all the time

  • sometimes

  • no

love language test Are you good with words?
  • yes

  • no, but I’m not afraid to express myself

  • no

love language quiz How much time do you spend choosing a gift?
  • a lot; it’s always about meticulous planning, research, and comparison

  • I just go shopping one afternoon and chose something that catches my eye

  • not much, I often give money or gift coupons

love language partner Do you know how much sugar your partner adds to coffee?
  • yes, I often make it for them 

  • 1 or 2?

  • I have no idea 

netflix binge What do you think about the "no phone" rule while watching a movie together?
  • that’s an excellent idea

  • a good idea, but what if it’s urgent?

  • no phone? that’s absurd

what is my love language When in a restaurant, do you sit near your partner or in front of them?
  • near

  • in front

what is your love language Do you wear your partner's sweatshirt/T-shirt, etc?
  • all the time 

  • often to bed

  • no

love language If you were married, would you take kids with you for a day and leave your partner to relax?
  • yes

  • no

song quiz Choose a song:
  • Selena Gomez & The Scene - Love You Like A Love Song

  • Rachel Platten - Stand By You

  • AC/DC - Touch Too Much 

  • Wham! - Last Christmas

  • Zayn feat Sia – Dusk Till Dawn

what is my love language Choose a quote:
  • I am happiest when I’m right next to you.

  • Come live in my heart and pay no rent.

  • The deepest moments of intimacy occur when you’re not talking.

  • Having a good time together is the essence of lovingness and the best means of increasing it.

  • It isn't the size of the gift that matters, but the size of the heart that gives it.

love language test Can you forget all the troubles in the hands of your beloved?
  • yes, we are like a puzzle together

  • minor problems do go away

  • only if followed by a kiss

  • that’s not a solution though

love language Would you like to have the same hobbies as your partner?
  • yes

  • at least some of them 

  • no

what is my love language What would you tell your partner to cheer them up when facing difficulties?
  • you are the best, you can do it! 

  • we can overcome it all together 

  • let’s worry about it later, just relax for now

  • you just hold them 

what is my love language Which of the following can you associate with your relationships?
  • warm cuddles under a blanket

  • “I love you” written in a heart

  • a hand holding a rose 

what is your love language Which of these gifts would you buy for your loved one's birthday?
  • expensive jewelry 

  • a game for two 

  • a couple’s blanket for two 

  • a small thing they’ve been eyeing for a long time 

  • write a poem for them

  • something practical 

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