Are You Top or Bottom?

By: Denis Priesnov
Updated: 5 months ago
Are you top or bottom? And we are not talking about bunk beds! We are talking about intimate relationships and your character!

All genders and sexual preferences can take this quiz! Top or bottom refer to "boys love," "BDSM," and various kinks. The generalized question allows you to determine your character and behavioral patterns outside of the societal norms. No matter what relationship you choose, your character and subconscious behavior will determine your role in a couple.

How Are Top and Bottom Determined?

The main way to determine your role is by asking you personal questions! We don't do tarot reading or psychic voodoo here! This one is just focused on studying your preferences and your history of behavior. Thus, the accuracy of the result depends solely on how honest you are in your answers! If you manage to open up and choose the most appropriate answer,

Usually, tops and bottoms have certain traits common to the group. They are universal and may differ from person to person. However, if you show plenty of them, it'll be enough to determine whether you are top or bottom during sexual encounters. How did you behave? Were you the initiator, or were you led? Also, the literal position during sex may tell a lot as well.

This way may not be accurate, though, for many reasons. Starting from your partners to your mental state when alone with them, and to other various aspects.

Do I Have to Be a Top or Bottom?

Of course not! The world is not so black and white. You do not have to be either. You can be neither or both! No rule prohibits you from being versatile. You may love experimenting and be free to do anything. If you love diversity and love changing roles, you'll get the according result.

Besides, if you get a result that doesn't really feel like you (mistakes happen, either human or computer error), do not be pressured to change your habits. You are who you are! This quiz may just be too tricky for you.
However, you may also find that this quiz brings you clarity on the matter you were not sure about. In this case, we encourage you to explore your desires and be open with your partner.

A simple yet not 100 percent accurate way to suspect your role is to take notice of your previous behaviors and wishes. It's always fun to be clear and discuss your boundaries so you can enjoy a variety of options together.

What Are Similar to Top or Bottom Quiz?

There are a few quizzes on the related topics you can try after this sexual behavior test. All of them can be found under the tag "sexuality."

Are Your Secretly Into BDSM test

What Is My Sexuality Test

My Kinks Test

Are You Top or Bottom? Questions

am i top or bottom Is your bedroom personality different from your regular one?
  • yes

  • no

am i top or bottom Are you usually the "bottom" player in the bedroom?
  • yes, always

  • quite often, yeah

  • bottom and top are roughly equal for me

  • no, I rarely bottom

  • I never bottom

am i top or bottom If your partner asked to switch positions this time, you'd
  • be pleased, let's do that!

  • hm, okay, but let's not make it a regular occurrence

  • just this one time

  • nope

am i top or bottom When you are on top, you feel
  • used to it, this is just the regular position

  • empowered

  • slightly uncomfortable and/or uncertain

  • nope, get me out of here

am i top or bottom When you are a bottom, you
  • feel relaxed

  • enjoy it while it lasts

  • do not feel as much pleasure as the top

  • just simply bored

am i top or bottom Did you have a happy childhood?
  • yes

  • no

am i top or bottom You usually wake up
  • early

  • late

  • it depends on the day

am i top or bottom Do you feel that you keep to your intimate position only because of your partner?
  • yes, I'd probably choose another one if not for them

  • I'm really rather versatile, so it's not an issue

  • not, I feel comfortable now and wouldn't change it

am i top or bottom Are you usually a gentle lover?
  • yes, always

  • mostly yes

  • no, not always, I can be harsh sometimes

  • no, not at all

am i top or bottom Do you like to have control in the bedroom?
  • yes

  • yes, but I can let go sometimes

  • just for the most important decisions

  • no, I prefer to lose myself and just relax

am i top or bottom Do you feel comfortable discussing aspects of intimate life with your friends?
  • yes

  • just something general, not in detail

  • yes, but only with one best friend

  • omg, no!

am i top or bottom How open are you to experimentation in bed?
  • very open

  • cautiously open

  • not open at all

am i top or bottom Do you feel comfortable initiating intimate contacts?
  • yes, I like doing it

  • yes; but I'm not very otivated to do that

  • not really comfortable, no

am i top or bottom Are you extroverted or introverted?
  • extroverted

  • introverted

am i top or bottom Tea or coffee?
  • tea

  • coffee

am i top or bottom quiz Are you a good leader?
  • yes

  • no

  • a decent one, I'd say

am i top or bottom Do you like to prepare surprises for your partner in bed?
  • yes

  • on occasion

  • not really

  • I don't have a partner

am i top or bottom If somebody tells you what to do...
  • how dare they?

  • they can do that only in bed

  • yes, I'll do that gladly

  • it depends...

top or bottom quiz On the actual bunk bed, what would you choose?
  • top

  • bottom

am i top or bottom In a fantasy setting, would you rather be royalty or a fierce knight?
  • royalty

  • knight

am i top or bottom Are you Alpha, Beta, or Omega? (in a fiction trope)
  • Alpha

  • Beta

  • Omega

About Denis

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